How to Host a Warm and Welcoming Friendsgiving in Your Home at The Colony

As the holiday season approaches, there’s something extra special about gathering with the people who bring comfort and joy to your everyday life. Friendsgiving offers a heartfelt twist on traditional Thanksgiving, giving neighbors, friends, and chosen family the chance to come together and share gratitude over a delicious meal. At The Colony in Bastrop, hosting Friendsgiving is made even easier thanks to spacious homes, inviting outdoor areas, and a welcoming community spirit.

Set the Scene with Seasonal Style

Creating the right atmosphere sets the tone for your entire Friendsgiving gathering. Luckily, you don’t need to overdo it to make your space feel festive. Think warm, natural elements like mini pumpkins, dried leaves, cinnamon sticks, and eucalyptus stems. Arrange them along the table or add them to mason jars for charming centerpieces.

If your front porch is the first thing guests will see, a fall-themed wreath, some cozy lanterns, and a couple of hay bales or potted mums can make a great first impression. Indoors, soft lighting, autumn-scented candles, and your favorite playlist can instantly set the mood. At The Colony, many homes feature open-concept layouts and flexible dining areas that are perfect for entertaining. If the weather cooperates, take advantage of your backyard or patio for a relaxed, al fresco gathering that celebrates the best of Texas fall.

Keep the Menu Simple and Shared

When it comes to the food, potluck-style meals take the pressure off the host and bring everyone into the spirit of the occasion. Ask guests to bring their favorite side dish or dessert, and be sure to coordinate ahead of time so there’s a little bit of everything.

As the host, you might focus on the main dish or signature drink. A roasted turkey breast, glazed ham, or hearty vegetarian main are all great options that can be made ahead. For sides, consider crowd-pleasers like sweet potato casserole, green bean almondine, or a big fall salad with cranberries and walnuts. Want to add a personal touch? Include handwritten place cards with the name of each dish and who brought it. It adds charm and helps guests navigate the spread.

Don’t forget the drinks. Offer a fall-themed mocktail or cocktail, like spiced cider or a cranberry fizz. A self-serve drink station makes it easy for everyone to help themselves throughout the night.

Make It Interactive and Meaningful

Friendsgiving is more than just eating; it’s about connection. Adding an interactive element to your gathering can spark conversation and make the evening memorable for all ages. A gratitude jar is a simple way to encourage guests to reflect on what they’re thankful for. Set out blank cards and pens, and invite everyone to drop in a note to read aloud later.

You could also try a recipe swap. Ask guests to bring printed copies of their dish recipe to share with others. Not only is it practical, but it also extends the spirit of the gathering well beyond the evening.

To keep kids engaged, set up a small table with crayons, coloring pages, or simple craft supplies. For adults, lighthearted games like holiday trivia or a themed dress code (think flannel and fall colors) can bring a dose of fun.

Extend the Invite to Neighbors New and Old

Friendsgiving is the perfect opportunity to welcome new neighbors into the fold. If someone recently moved into The Colony, a casual gathering like this can help them feel included and connected right away. It’s also a great time to catch up with longtime friends and share stories from past holidays.

Consider turning the event into a neighborhood tradition. Whether it’s hosted in one home or rotates year to year, these small celebrations build bonds that make The Colony feel more like a true community.

The Colony: Where Friendship Feels at Home

In a place like The Colony, it’s easy to turn a simple dinner into something meaningful. With thoughtfully designed homes, outdoor spaces made for gathering, and a neighborly atmosphere, hosting Friendsgiving becomes less about stress and more about celebration.

If you’re dreaming of a home where entertaining and connection come naturally, The Colony in Bastrop is the perfect place to plant roots. Contact us today to schedule a tour and discover all the ways our master-planned community brings people together.